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 ![Figure: It's common for people to say "I don't remember you disagreeing with that decision", sending a "for the record" email makes it clear](past-decision-1500x500.jpg)
 
+`youtube: https://youtu.be/VFwCGECvq4I`
+**Video: Jeff Bezos talking about the problems of being determined and winning an argument by attrition
+
+::: bad
+**Don't win by attrition:** Disagreements should never be resolved merely by who gets tired of arguing first.
+![Bad Example - Never resolve an argument by who gets exhausted first](winning-by-attrition.png)
+:::
+
+::: good
+**Disagree and Commit:** - Enhance productivity by disagreeing and getting on with the job anyway. Note this is similar to 'for the record' except verbal rather than written.
+![Good Example - Even though you disagree it's best to still commit and proceed](disagree-and-commit.png)
+:::
+
 ::: greybox
 **One war story**
 
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