Selected Frame After Startup

[tvraman]

Topic: Howto: Set Selected Frame After EXWM Startup
Description:

I just started using EXWM with Emacs (30.0 from Git@Head) and love
EXWM.

I have one lingering issue.

1. I'm using a custom xsession and my .xsession starts an XTerm like
   it always has -- xterm --title <title>&
   I launch emacs with EXWM loaded at the end of that xsession file.

Emacs comes up with everything correctly initialized but with the
Frame displaying the XTerm as the selected frame.

How can I set things up so I have the "other frame" ie not the XTerm
selected after emacs startup?

Also, I initialize a set of tabs in my Emacs Init; but these never get
created until I physically switch frames to the non-Xterm frame and
create my tabs.