Update esp-matter to use latest espressif button driver (CON-1512)

[jonsmirl]

When reading #1218 it notes that esp_matter is locked to version 2.5.0 and the current version is 3.4.1. This needs to be updated to allow access to the interrupt driven button code.

https://github.com/espressif/esp-matter/blob/main/device_hal/button_driver/iot_button/idf_component.yml

[shripad621git]

@jonsmirl , some of the esp-matter examples like light, light_switch use esp_bsp_devkit component which has a dependency on espressif/button component. Building these esp-matter examples on latest main will by default use the latest espressif/button component which is 3.5.0.

For the bridge specific apps which use device_hal, we will soon update the version to latest.