reimplement fix for akka/pekko cluster #818

Job	Run time
JDK 8 / Scala 2.12.x	6h 0m 20s
Pekko Cluster Metrics Test with Sigar	8m 18s
JDK 11 / Scala 2.12.x	6h 0m 15s
JDK 17 / Scala 2.12.x	6h 0m 16s
JDK 21 / Scala 2.12.x	6h 0m 16s
JDK 8 / Scala 2.13.x	56m 58s
Pekko Classic Remoting Tests (cluster/test distributed-data/test cluster-tools/test cluster-metri...	6m 29s
JDK 11 / Scala 2.13.x	1h 9m 44s
Pekko Classic Remoting Tests (cluster-sharding/test)	9m 44s
JDK 17 / Scala 2.13.x	56m 52s
Pekko Classic Remoting Tests (cluster-typed/test cluster-sharding-typed/test)	9m 37s
JDK 21 / Scala 2.13.x	1h 0m 25s
JDK 8 / Scala 3.3.x	59m 21s
JDK 11 / Scala 3.3.x	1h 6m 10s
JDK 17 / Scala 3.3.x	57m 45s
JDK 21 / Scala 3.3.x	57m 57s
	1d 8h 40m 27s

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