[release-0.21] Update to go 1.23

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Manually cherry-picked from #9312

• Bump controller-gen to v0.17.2 to be compatible with go 1.23
• Bump golang.org/x/crypto to v0.35.0
• Bump golangci-lint to v1.64.5 because of timeouts with newer go in older versions

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