feat: 支持动态修改 Grid 的配置

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#1730

• 支持通过 graphModel.updateGridOptions() 方法动态修改 Grid 的配置，如控制 Grid 的显隐、大小、类型、宽度和颜色等（详见增加的示例）
• 在 examples/feature-examples 中增加动态修改网格配置的示例

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