[no-release-notes] go/libraries/doltcore/remotestorage/internal/reliable: grpc_test.go: Improve perf of NestErrorStreams so that it works and does not take forever.

[reltuk]

Between go 1.22 and go 1.23 whether a timer that had just been reset with time.Reset(0) would immediately deliver on C changed. This test was unintentionally testing functionality around send and receive delivery timeouts by not setting these timeouts and getting a default value of 0.

This change makes the test run in < 1s locally, down from over ten minutes.

[coffeegoddd]

@reltuk DOLT

comparing_percentages
100.000000 to 100.000000

version	result	total
523a6c0	ok	5937457

version	total_tests
523a6c0	5937457

correctness_percentage
100.0

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@coffeegoddd DOLT

test_name	detail	row_cnt	sorted	mysql_time	sql_mult	cli_mult
batching	LOAD DATA	10000	1	0.06	1.33
batching	batch sql	10000	1	0.09	1.33
batching	by line sql	10000	1	0.1	1.2
blob	1 blob	200000	1	0.93	3.76	4.52
blob	2 blobs	200000	1	0.92	4.27	4.68
blob	no blob	200000	1	0.95	2.32	2.62
col type	datetime	200000	1	0.83	2.33	2.59
col type	varchar	200000	1	0.72	3.31	3.61
config width	2 cols	200000	1	0.9	2.17	2.37
config width	32 cols	200000	1	1.91	1.98	2.7
config width	8 cols	200000	1	0.98	2.3	2.68
pk type	float	200000	1	0.83	2.37	3.02
pk type	int	200000	1	0.88	2.25	2.65
pk type	varchar	200000	1	2.74	0.93	0.99
row count	1.6mm	1600000	1	5.75	2.84	2.68
row count	400k	400000	1	1.49	2.65	2.72
row count	800k	800000	1	2.92	2.75	2.71
secondary index	four index	200000	1	3.8	1.31	1.17
secondary index	no secondary	200000	1	0.97	2.23	2.55
secondary index	one index	200000	1	1.15	2.37	2.48
secondary index	two index	200000	1	2	1.75	1.76
sorting	shuffled 1mm	1000000	0	5.39	2.58	2.56
sorting	sorted 1mm	1000000	1	5.37	2.64	2.55

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@coffeegoddd DOLT

name	detail	mean_mult
dolt_blame_basic	system table	1.21
dolt_blame_commit_filter	system table	3.05
dolt_commit_ancestors_commit_filter	system table	0.65
dolt_commits_commit_filter	system table	1.11
dolt_diff_log_join_from_commit	system table	2.94
dolt_diff_log_join_to_commit	system table	2.91
dolt_diff_table_from_commit_filter	system table	1.19
dolt_diff_table_to_commit_filter	system table	1.17
dolt_diffs_commit_filter	system table	1.03
dolt_history_commit_filter	system table	1.44
dolt_log_commit_filter	system table	1.11

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@coffeegoddd DOLT

name	add_cnt	delete_cnt	update_cnt	latency
adds_only	60000	0	0	1.17
adds_updates_deletes	60000	60000	60000	4.65
deletes_only	0	60000	0	2.55
updates_only	0	0	60000	3.11