chore(deps): update deps matching "@opentelemetry/*"; add dependency-…

…check (#72)

    0.34.1 -> 0.35.0 @opentelemetry/host-metrics (range-bump)
    0.34.1 -> 0.35.0 @opentelemetry/instrumentation-express (range-bump)
    0.47.0 -> 0.48.0 @opentelemetry/exporter-logs-otlp-proto (range-bump)
    0.47.0 -> 0.48.0 @opentelemetry/exporter-metrics-otlp-proto (range-bump)
    0.47.0 -> 0.48.0 @opentelemetry/exporter-trace-otlp-grpc (range-bump)
    0.47.0 -> 0.48.0 @opentelemetry/exporter-trace-otlp-http (range-bump)
    0.47.0 -> 0.48.0 @opentelemetry/exporter-trace-otlp-proto (range-bump)
    0.47.0 -> 0.48.0 @opentelemetry/instrumentation-http (range-bump)
    0.47.0 -> 0.48.0 @opentelemetry/sdk-node (range-bump)
    1.20.0 -> 1.21.0 @opentelemetry/resources

- update OTel deps to latest
- add a dependency-check to `npm run lint` to watch for missing or unused deps
- try out preferring deduped npm installs for now

.npmrc

@@ -1 +1,2 @@
 lockfile-version=2
+prefer-dedupe=true