Add defaults for auto-populated selects

[hypergonial]

Summary

Add default_values attribute for auto-populated selects. This did require some fairly significant restructuring to make type-safe, and honestly I'm still not quite happy with the result, so feedback is welcome.

The select types have been completely seperated, so the new hierarchy of components looks something like this:

SelectMenu
TextSelect(SelectMenu)
AutoPopulatingSelect(SelectMenu)
ChannelSelect(AutoPopulatingSelect) 
RoleSelect(AutoPopulatingSelect)
UserSelect(AutoPopulatingSelect)
MentionableSelect(AutoPopulatingSelect)

This PR also deprecates ActionRowBuilder.add_select_menu() as type-specific methods have been added for each select type. I feel like seperating the select types is better for type safety and potentially more future-proof if Discord decides add specific behaviours to a given select type down the line.

Example

row = rest.build_message_action_row().add_user_menu(
    "Test",
    placeholder="Amongus",
    min_values=1,
    max_values=2,
    default_values=[
        hikari.impl.SelectDefaultBuilder(
            163979124820541440, type=hikari.SelectDefaultType.USER
        ),
        hikari.impl.SelectDefaultBuilder(
            1184650183401803906, type=hikari.SelectDefaultType.USER
        ),
    ],
)

I tried an alternative interface where the snowflake's type could be inferred from the select's type, however this is not possible due to it being possible to mix default types in mentionable selects, so at the moment this is the best I could come up with.

The implementation tries to be type-safe to the extent that adding an invalid default type fails type-checking:

row = rest.build_message_action_row().add_user_menu(
    "Test",
    placeholder="Amongus",
    min_values=1,
    max_values=2,
    default_values=[
        hikari.impl.SelectDefaultBuilder( # Type error
            163979124820541440, type=hikari.SelectDefaultType.ROLE
        )
    ],
)

Checklist

• I have run nox and all the pipelines have passed.
• I have made unittests according to the code I have added/modified/deleted.

Related issues

Closes #1776

[davfsa]

I need to have a think about the restructure, but will most probably forget about it, so please ping me in the near future if I dont respond :)

[FasterSpeeding]

Just leaving this here as a note that these versions have to be bumped before this is merged