Bump aiohttp to 3.11.0

[bdraco]

Proposed change

Should wait to merge until after 3.11.0 has been released in core, however I'll keep updating this PR as we get closer to make sure nothing regresses in the mean time so we can go right to the stable version when it drops mid Nov.

This PR is intended to discover issues that may affect supervisor so they can be tackled before the stable release

changelog: aio-libs/aiohttp@v3.10.11...v3.11.0

Client performance is ~140% improved vs 3.10.10
WebSocket reader performance is ~380% improved vs 3.10.10

Type of change

• Dependency upgrade
• Bugfix (non-breaking change which fixes an issue)
• New feature (which adds functionality to the supervisor)
• Breaking change (fix/feature causing existing functionality to break)
• Code quality improvements to existing code or addition of tests

Additional information

• This PR fixes or closes issue: fixes #
• This PR is related to issue:
• Link to documentation pull request:
• Link to cli pull request:
• Link to client library pull request:

Checklist

• The code change is tested and works locally.
• Local tests pass. Your PR cannot be merged unless tests pass
• There is no commented out code in this PR.
• I have followed the development checklist
• The code has been formatted using Ruff (ruff format supervisor tests)
• Tests have been added to verify that the new code works.

If API endpoints or add-on configuration are added/changed:

• Documentation added/updated for developers.home-assistant.io
• CLI updated (if necessary)
• Client library updated (if necessary)

[bdraco]

Manually upgraded in the container as no changes needed.

Ingress is noticeably faster on my slower systems.

[bdraco]

closing in favor of #5416