fix: build, upgrade rustc, and deps

This commit upgrades Rust to 1.75.0, the latest release. We also
upgraded our dependencies to stay up to date and to clear out any
uneeded deps from the lockfile. In order to make sure everything works
this also fixes the build by upgrading the workspace-hack crate using
cargo hikari and removing the `workspace.lint` that was in
influxdb3_write that didn't need to be there, probably from a merge
issue.

With this we can build influxdb3 as our default on main, but this alone
is not enough to fix CI and will be addressed in future commits.