[3.12] gh-123270: Replaced SanitizedNames with a more surgical fix. (…

…GH-123354) (#123411)

gh-123270: Replaced SanitizedNames with a more surgical fix. (GH-123354)

Applies changes from zipp 3.20.1 and jaraco/zippGH-124
(cherry picked from commit 2231286d78d328c2f575e0b05b16fe447d1656d6)

Co-authored-by: Jason R. Coombs <[email protected]>

CPython-sync-commit-latest: 95b073bddefa6243effa08e131e297c0383e7f6a