[python-package] upgrade to scikit-build-core 0.9.3 #6846

Job	Run time
Python - oldest supported versions (ubuntu-latest)	3m 27s
Python - oldest supported versions (ubuntu-latest)	3m 27s
regular (macOS-latest, Python 3.9)	14m 49s
regular (macOS-latest, Python 3.9)	14m 49s
sdist (macOS-latest, Python 3.10)	12m 26s
sdist (macOS-latest, Python 3.10)	12m 26s
bdist (macOS-latest, Python 3.7)	18m 58s
bdist (macOS-latest, Python 3.7)	18m 58s
if-else (macOS-latest, Python 3.9)	4m 48s
if-else (macOS-latest, Python 3.9)	4m 48s
mpi source (macOS-latest, Python 3.10)	14m 52s
mpi source (macOS-latest, Python 3.10)	14m 52s
mpi pip (macOS-latest, Python 3.11)	15m 41s
mpi pip (macOS-latest, Python 3.11)	15m 41s
mpi wheel (macOS-latest, Python 3.8)	1h 0m 13s
mpi wheel (macOS-latest, Python 3.8)	13m 52s
all-python-package-jobs-successful	2s
all-python-package-jobs-successful	4s
	4h 4m 13s

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