fix: unsafe concurrent consuming api of rocksmq

[chyezh]

issue: #38966

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Codecov Report

Attention: Patch coverage is 70.00000% with 3 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.

Project coverage is 80.97%. Comparing base (56659ba) to head (7c2fc0c).
Report is 2 commits behind head on master.

Files with missing lines	Patch %	Lines
pkg/mq/mqimpl/rocksmq/client/client_impl.go	0.00%	2 Missing and 1 partial ⚠️

Additional details and impacted files

@@            Coverage Diff             @@
##           master   #39544      +/-   ##
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+ Coverage   80.94%   80.97%   +0.02%     
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  Files        1408     1408              
  Lines      198884   198891       +7     
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+ Hits       160987   161044      +57     
+ Misses      32194    32148      -46     
+ Partials     5703     5699       -4     

Components	Coverage Δ
Client	79.51% <ø> (ø)
Core	69.56% <ø> (ø)
Go	82.89% <70.00%> (+0.03%)	⬆️

Files with missing lines	Coverage Δ
pkg/mq/mqimpl/rocksmq/server/rocksmq_impl.go	82.51% <100.00%> (-0.70%)	⬇️
pkg/mq/mqimpl/rocksmq/server/rocksmq_retention.go	76.89% <100.00%> (ø)
pkg/mq/mqimpl/rocksmq/client/client_impl.go	80.89% <0.00%> (-1.81%)	⬇️

... and 44 files with indirect coverage changes

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