chore: modernize dependencies

[seriousme]

This PR closes: #111, it:

• updates CI
  • to use the lastest versions of NodeJS and actions
  • use docker compose instead of docker-compose which is not supported on Ubuntu:latest action runners anymore
  • uses npm commands to run all tests for more flexibility
• replaces standard & snappy by eslint & neostandard
• replaces tape & faucet by node:test
• removes all unused dependencies
• updates all dependencies to their latest versions
• applies various lint fixes
• removes defunct badges from README.md

Enjoy!

Kind regards,
Hans

[seriousme]

Btw: we might want to replace pump and through2 and throughv as well by native node:streams.
I don't know the exact details yet, but it seems doable.

Kind regards,
Hans

[robertsLando]

Btw: we might want to replace pump and through2 and throughv as well by native node:streams.
I don't know the exact details yet, but it seems doable.

I think I already did this on aedes or mqttjs, do you prefer to go for it here or another PR?

[seriousme]

Lets do this in a next PR. Its not an urgent issue for now.

Kind regards,
Hans

[seriousme]

hold the press: I found some issues in the new test suite
It turns out that not all tests were executed, its not difficult to fix,but takes some labor.

The good news is that I found it while finalizing the removal of pump and through2 and throughv.

[seriousme]

FYI: the process.exit(0) at the end was already part of the original test suite and is required because the abs test did and still does not clean up correctly. I plan on refurbishing the abs test again so that the process.exit(0) is no longer required here.

[robertsLando]

maybe it's better to use once here?