ci(pre-commit): migrate pre-commit config (apache#43372)

We update the names of the pre-commit stages. From the https://pre-commit.com/#confining-hooks-to-run-at-certain-stages:

new in 3.2.0: The values of stages match the hook names. Previously, commit, push, and merge-commit matched pre-commit, pre-push, and pre-merge-commit respectively.

.pre-commit-config.yaml

@@ -15,7 +15,7 @@
 # specific language governing permissions and limitations
 # under the License.
 ---
-default_stages: [commit, push]
+default_stages: [pre-commit, pre-push]
 default_language_version:
   python: python3
   node: 22.2.0