Fix family.overrideWith cast error and include family arguments in the ref

[rrousselGit]

fixes #2832
fixes #2851

[codecov]

Codecov Report

Merging #2852 (1446a6a) into master (4461140) will decrease coverage by 4.76%.
The diff coverage is 100.00%.

Additional details and impacted files

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- Coverage   100.00%   95.24%   -4.76%     
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  Files            3       53      +50     
  Lines           74     2249    +2175     
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+ Hits            74     2142    +2068     
- Misses           0      107     +107     

Files Changed	Coverage Δ
.../riverpod/lib/src/async_notifier/auto_dispose.dart	100.00% <100.00%> (ø)
...od/lib/src/async_notifier/auto_dispose_family.dart	86.36% <100.00%> (ø)
packages/riverpod/lib/src/async_notifier/base.dart	100.00% <100.00%> (ø)
...ckages/riverpod/lib/src/async_notifier/family.dart	85.71% <100.00%> (ø)
...riverpod/lib/src/future_provider/auto_dispose.dart	92.30% <100.00%> (ø)
...ackages/riverpod/lib/src/future_provider/base.dart	93.75% <100.00%> (ø)
...ckages/riverpod/lib/src/notifier/auto_dispose.dart	100.00% <100.00%> (ø)
...riverpod/lib/src/notifier/auto_dispose_family.dart	76.19% <100.00%> (ø)
packages/riverpod/lib/src/notifier/base.dart	100.00% <100.00%> (ø)
packages/riverpod/lib/src/notifier/family.dart	73.91% <100.00%> (ø)
... and 8 more

... and 32 files with indirect coverage changes