fix(templateRef): delay setting the ref value if wrapped in Suspense

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close #4930

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Size Report

Bundles

File	Size	Gzip	Brotli
runtime-dom.global.prod.js	101 kB (+42 B)	38.1 kB (+5 B)	34.2 kB (-27 B)
vue.global.prod.js	160 kB (+42 B)	58 kB (+5 B)	51.6 kB (+76 B)

Usages

Name	Size	Gzip	Brotli
createApp (CAPI only)	49.1 kB (+42 B)	18.9 kB (+15 B)	17.3 kB (+24 B)
createApp	55.7 kB (+42 B)	21.4 kB (+10 B)	19.6 kB (-23 B)
createSSRApp	59.7 kB (+42 B)	23.1 kB (+7 B)	21.1 kB (+61 B)
defineCustomElement	60.4 kB (+42 B)	23 kB (+10 B)	21 kB (+70 B)
overall	69.4 kB (+42 B)	26.5 kB (+8 B)	24.1 kB (+40 B)

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